Updated: 25 August 2026
Rules of conduct
These pages have been reviewed by no lawyer. They describe faithfully what the service does today, and on that point they bind Mizan. A legal review remains necessary before any commercial opening, and is recorded as such in the project's follow-up.
Five rules
Deliberately few. A list of thirty prohibitions goes unread, and is sidestepped by omission.
- You come with the intention of marriage. A conversation opens after an accepted approach — to move toward meeting, not to settle in. This is not a place for chatter or casual dating.
- You are who you say you are. Taking on an identity that is not yours, or lying about an existing marital situation, means the account is removed.
- A refusal is accepted. No answer is an answer.
- No money is asked for. No money changing hands, no investment promise, no help with a trip or a visa. That is the most common scam on services of this kind.
- What was written in private stays private. A marriage request is an intimate document.
What is forbidden, and what follows
| Behaviour | Consequence |
|---|---|
| Impersonation | Profile removed at once, account closed |
| Asking for money, fraud | Immediate removal, evidence kept for a complaint |
| Harassment after a refusal or a block | Profile removed, account closed |
| Sexual, violent or degrading content | Removal, a warning, then closure if it happens again |
| Contacting a minor | Immediate closure and report to the authorities |
| Incomplete or made-up profile | Not published; the profile can still be written |
Report
You report from the profile card, in your space. Six grounds: fake profile, harassment, attempted scam, improper content, identity theft, other.
Reports are capped at ten per hour per person: mass reporting is itself a way to harass.
What happens next
| Step | Target time |
|---|---|
| Acknowledgement | 24 hours |
| First review | 72 hours |
| Decision, and both parties told | 7 days |
| Review, by someone other than whoever decided | open for 30 days |
Any report naming a minor or a physical threat comes before all others, without waiting its turn.
These times are design commitments, not measurements. No real report has been handled: the service is not open. And no one yet holds the moderation role — that is the last lock before opening.
What protects you with no one stepping in
- A block works both ways, and says nothing. Whoever is blocked sees exactly the message a non-existent profile would give. A block that announces itself points at whoever placed it.
- A block also withdraws pending requests, both ways.
- The first name shown may be a pseudonym. No one checks that name. The service asks for neither an identity document nor a telephone number, and nothing else on your profile identifies you.
- A block can be lifted. The list of people you have blocked is in your space, and each block is lifted there with one button. Lifting a block does not give back the withdrawn requests: you see each other again in search, the rest is asked again.
- You set for yourself the verification level required to write to you.
- A marriage request requires an approach already accepted.
- Nothing is public: profiles are not indexed and are not visible without a verified account.
- Withdrawing your profile is immediate, and deleting the account erases profile and sessions.
A limit we will not paper over
Nothing stops someone you know from opening an account and reading published profiles. Verification raises the cost of doing so; it does not make it impossible.
We would rather write it down than promise the opposite. A service where no one can see anyone serves no one; what we can do is keep nothing public, let you decide who may reach you, and make withdrawal immediate.